{"id":9476,"date":"2026-02-20T10:04:43","date_gmt":"2026-02-20T10:04:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stadtkueken.de\/how-to-make-the-transition-to-daycare-a-success-tips-for-parents-and-children\/"},"modified":"2026-09-03T07:58:19","modified_gmt":"2026-09-03T07:58:19","slug":"how-to-make-the-transition-to-daycare-a-success-tips-for-parents-and-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stadtkueken.de\/en\/how-to-make-the-transition-to-daycare-a-success-tips-for-parents-and-children\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Make the Transition to Daycare a Success (Tips for Parents and Children)"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"9476\" class=\"elementor elementor-9476 elementor-6214\" data-elementor-settings=\"{&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_width_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_padding_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true},&quot;element_pack_global_tooltip_border_radius_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;top&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;right&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bottom&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;left&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;isLinked&quot;:true}}\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-264ebf8 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"264ebf8\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7e1b966 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7e1b966\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Starting daycare is a big step\u2014for you and your child. With good preparation and a proven transition model (e.g., the Berlin or Munich model), you can help your child navigate this phase gently. Typically, the <\/span><b>settling-in period<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> lasts about 2\u20134 weeks, during which you and your child build trust with the teachers. Studies show that children who <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">started<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a gentle transition into daycare were sick significantly longer during the first six months and exhibited noticeably more anxious behavior. Loving support from you and the childcare staff, on the other hand, fosters a secure attachment. A good daycare center actively involves you in the process, discusses progress and setbacks, and thus helps everyone experience this transition in a positive way.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-150b048 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"150b048\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-204fa0d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"204fa0d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Settling-in Models: The Berlin Model vs. the Munich Model\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-28a8e34 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"28a8e34\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are various models for how the transition to daycare can take place. The best-known is the <\/span><b>Berlin Settling-In Model<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. In this model, a familiar caregiver (e.g., Mom or Dad) stays in the group room for a few hours at a time during the initial phase. After an initial phase of about three days <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">initial phase<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (during which parents are passively present), the first brief separation attempt takes place on the fourth day. Depending on the child\u2019s reaction, the separation time is then gradually extended. Eventually, the teachers gently take on more and more caregiving responsibilities until, after about 2\u20134 weeks, the child is at the center without their parents.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the <\/span><b>the Munich Settling-In Model<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> , your child takes center stage as a capable participant. Here, too, there are defined phases: preparation, getting to know the environment, and building security and trust. During the getting-to-know-you phase, your child visits the daycare center with you to familiarize themselves with the daily routine at a relaxed pace. Only then do the first brief separation attempts take place, and the teachers<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">gradually take over care, always in close consultation with you. Both models aim to provide your child with as much security and closeness as possible until they<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-730f96e e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"730f96e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-95ad953 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"95ad953\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Stages of Adjustment<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9a0fc98 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"9a0fc98\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\">\n<table id=\"tablepress-2\" class=\"tablepress tablepress-id-2\">\n<thead>\n<tr class=\"row-1\">\n\t<th class=\"column-1\">Phase<\/th><th class=\"column-2\">Berliner Modell<\/th><th class=\"column-3\">M\u00fcnchner Modell<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n<tbody>\n<tr class=\"row-2\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Vorbereitung<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">Elterninfo &amp; Kennenlerngespr\u00e4che, erste Kita-Besuche<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">Kita besuchen, Raum &amp; Erzieher*innen kennenlernen<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-3\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Grundphase \/ Kennenlernen<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">3 Tage: Eltern bleiben passiv dabei, pflegerische Aufgaben \u00fcbernehmen<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">Gemeinsame Besuche mit Eltern; Kind erkundet behutsam die Kita<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-4\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Erster Trennungsversuch \/ Sicherheitsphase<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">4. Tag: erste kurze Trennung (z.B. 30 Min), Beobachtung der Reaktion<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">Erste kurze Trennung: Kind lernt, dass die Erzieher*in f\u00fcr es da ist<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-5\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Stabilisierungsphase \/ Vertrauensphase<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">Trennungszeit wird verl\u00e4ngert (bis 1-2 Std.), Erzieher*innen \u00fcbernehmen Wickeln\/F\u00fcttern<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">Erzieher*innen \u00fcbernehmen Schritt f\u00fcr Schritt alle Pflegeaufgaben, Eltern ziehen sich zur\u00fcck<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-6\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Schlussphase \/ Auswertung<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">Nach ca. 2-4 Wochen erfolgt der komplette Abschied der Eltern<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">Abschlussgespr\u00e4ch: Erzieher*innen berichten, Kind ist in Gruppe integriert<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<!-- #tablepress-2 from cache --><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d7af1fa e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"d7af1fa\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a90828a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"a90828a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How long does the adjustment period last?\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9871d1c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9871d1c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>2\u20134 weeks<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is standard. In a survey, 44% of institutions reported 3\u20134 weeks, and 42% reported exactly 2 weeks.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Generally speaking, the adjustment period <\/span><b>depends on the child<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Children with a secure attachment often feel at ease after just two weeks. Children who are very sensitive or vulnerable (e.g., under two years of age) may need more time.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">External factors also play a role: Longer care hours (more hours per day) or additional stressors (e.g., illness) can prolong the adjustment period. A daycare director from Hamburg therefore usually recommends planning for 4 weeks\u2014and in the case of illness, it can even take 6 weeks. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s important not to rush things. \u201cThe more relaxed the parents are about it, the more relaxed the children will be, too.\u201d Trust that your child is allowed to go at their own pace.  <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-929fbff e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"929fbff\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c7e3155 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c7e3155\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How can you prepare your child?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-95f3b98 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"95f3b98\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Careful preparation helps many children (and parents) overcome their fears:<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Practicing Separation Situations<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Gradually get your child used to being alone (e.g., with a babysitter or in a playgroup). Daycare director Schr\u00f6der advises: For children under three, it really helps to prepare them by <\/span><b>getting to know a babysitter<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or <\/span><b>playing regularly without parents<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> .<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Books &#038; Conversations<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Read picture books about starting daycare or preschool. Talk about the new adventures and answer all your child\u2019s questions. This will help build excitement and ease any fears.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Introductory Visit<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Take advantage of the open houses or short visit arrangements that are often offered. If your child gets to know the group room, the toys, and the teachers in a relaxed way while you\u2019re there, many things will feel more familiar to them when they come later on without you.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Shared Routines<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Start gradually restructuring your daily routine ahead of time. Have your slippers ready, and practice <\/span><b>arriving on time<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or a little goodbye ritual at home. A consistent daily routine provides a sense of security.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Comfort Items<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Give your child a personal item (e.g., a comfort blanket or favorite toy). The familiar scent and a cozy stuffed animal can provide comfort even in a new environment.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Fill out the parent information form<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Tell the teachers as much as you can about your child: eating and sleeping habits, favorite routines, fears, and the words they use to describe things (e.g., \u201cG\u00fcll\u201d for \u201cthirst\u201d). This will help the team best adapt to your child\u2019s needs.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stay as calm and positive as possible before and during the adjustment period <\/span><b>calm and positive<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You are your child\u2019s most important source of support. As one teacher explains: When your child sees that you trust the teachers, that trust rubs off on them\u2014and then saying goodbye is often easier.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f5431b9 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"f5431b9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-be2b30f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"be2b30f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Separation Anxiety &amp; Difficult Adjustment\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6323bc5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6323bc5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s normal for your child to cry when you say goodbye or to cling to you. Tears <\/span><b>don\u2019t mean that everything is going wrong<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">; on the contrary, they\u2019re a sign of healthy attachment. Many children simply need a little time during the first few days to settle in. Despite the tears, maintain a loving but firm routine: Say goodbye, stay positive, and slowly step back. This will help your child feel that you\u2019 <\/span><b>\u2019ll still be there<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, even when you\u2019re gone. Lieselotte Ahnert, a developmental psychologist, emphasizes that a good daycare center involves parents in the process: Progress and challenges are discussed regularly so that parents feel reassured.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, however, the adjustment period doesn\u2019t go smoothly. If your child reacts with a lot of anxiety or if you\u2019ve been stuck in this phase for weeks, be sure to discuss this with the daycare team. There are various strategies: Some centers very gradually extend the separation time or temporarily switch the primary caregiver. It\u2019s important that you, as parents, stay calm. As one daycare director advises: Explain to your child that other children go through similar experiences and that this phase will pass. At home, you can also provide reassurance afterward by talking with your child about their experiences (without pressuring them) and showing understanding.     <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-61b49f6 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"61b49f6\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-52e5842 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"52e5842\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What should you do if it just isn't working out?\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2b00543 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2b00543\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In rare cases, the adjustment period ends prematurely in a full-blown crisis. Then there is a <\/span><b>Plan B<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">:<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Alternative Child Care<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Check to see if a qualified child care provider or trusted family members (grandparents) can temporarily take over. Many children often find it easier to adjust when they already know the caregiver.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Extending Parental Leave<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: If no other solution works, a short extension of parental leave may help. Some children go to bed or to daycare after a \u201cgrace period\u201d (e.g., a few weeks later) and then adjust much more easily.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Wait and try again<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: In particular, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">toddlers under 3<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tend to adjust more successfully to daycare after their third birthday. Experts have observed that many children suddenly have no trouble staying at daycare after their third birthday\u2014simply because they\u2019re a little further along in their development.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if it&#8217;s hard, don&#8217;t give up. A teacher reassures us: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cEvery child is suited for daycare and will feel comfortable there sooner or later.\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. With patience, your trust, and the support of the teachers, your child will make the transition.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-69ae41b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"69ae41b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-915229b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"915229b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">An Overview of Child-Friendly Adjustment\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d93fb64 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d93fb64\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Duration:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Plan for 2\u20134 weeks\u2014longer if necessary (e.g., in case of illness).<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Steps:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Parent Information &#038; Getting Acquainted \u2192 Initial Phase \u2192 Gradual Separations \u2192 Stabilization Phase \u2192 Completion. (See table above.)<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Parental Behavior:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Stay as relaxed as possible. Your child senses your mood\u2014 <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the calmer you are, the calmer your child will be<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Preparing Children:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Read books, visit the daycare center together, and practice short separations (playgroup, babysitter).<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Building Trust:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Give the child time to bring a favorite item and plenty of physical contact at the beginning. Talk openly with the teachers\u2014they are your allies in this process.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>When fears run high:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Crying is normal. Show understanding, but stick to your rules. A good daycare group responds with empathy, provides a sense of security, and always involves you as a parent.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>In an emergency:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Talk to the management and work together to find solutions (more flexible hours, a different caregiver, a childminder, etc.).<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br><br><\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The most important thing is that your child feels that <\/span><b>you trust them<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. 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